Wednesday, March 2, 2016

"I'll Always Love Him" Really??

Divorce in and of itself is way too high of a statistic in my book. And Im saying that being a divorcee also. One thing that really gets me about those that divorce, mainly celebrities because I hear about them most often, is when they say something like "We have decided to divorce. It was a hard decision to make, and I will always love him". Um no, if you decided to break up, it's because you dont love him anymore. I understand that there's a difference between being in love with someone and loving them. When you're in love with someone, you're still commited to them. You still are happy to see that person and cant imagine life without that person. Just loving them, maybe not quite as commited anymore but still really like being with them. But if you decided you're no longer going to spend the rest of your life with them, you're not going to love them forever. You might have feelings for them for a little longer, but the love isnt going to stay. Even if you have a child together. Doesnt mean you'll still love them after they're gone. If you're going to break up, be real about it. Im tired of hearing the "I'll always love him" bit. Just say it... "I dont like him anymore" cuz that's the truth. Dont try and pretty it up.
You dont have to be a douche canoe about it, though. It's not a bad thing to say you dont love them, but you also dont need to start bashing them either. I dont need to hear all the things that went wrong, or all the things he did wrong. I really dont need to hear how small his penis is or that he was horrible in bed. Those things should be keep within the relationship. All you're doing is airing your dirty laundry and looking like a bitch. You arent happy in the relationship, that's fine. Break up, and move on. End of story.

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