Wednesday, July 27, 2016

Don't say it unless you mean it

**DISCLAIMER** Nobody has actually said this to me today, it was just a random thought I had while doing dishes......

You know what's super annoying?  When I'm talking to someone on Facebook, or through text, and they say something like "we need to get together!  I haven't seen you in forever!" or "We need to get the kids together and have a play date!".  I don't know if what's people feel like they should say to be nice, or if they actually mean it.  I'm all for getting together, even if it's just hanging out at someone's house and watching TV.  Or getting the kids together!  The girls haven't been to daycare in over a year now, so they don't get to play with kids their own age; with the exception of their cousin Mason.  So any other social interaction they can get is amazing!  For the longest time, I'd actually try and pin something down.  Or I'd tell someone to let me know when they have some time, and we'll get together, only to just never hear about it again.  I don't have a schedule.  As Grant says, I have nothing but time.  The only thing I have going on that I need to schedule around is my OB appointments for Tiny Peanut.  But other than that, I have absolutely no plans for the day.  I figure stuff out on the fly.  So nobody really has to work around me.  Since I have a lot of time, I also have no problem working around anybody else's schedules. 
I'm sure it's not intentional, and just time goes by without people realizing that a month has gone by without a word about it.  Well, I should hope it's not intentional.  If it is, then I'd feel like the most unwanted person alive!  :)  I'm actually looking forward to Isabelle starting school in the next couple years so she can start making friends and being able to play with them.  When we buy a house, I really hope that she finds friends that she can go over and play like I used to do as a kid.  Until then, I guess it'll just be us 3.

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